I woke up
today morning, shocked and horrified with the news of a little six year old girl
Bharti killed by her father. The incident as the news read, took place a few
days back at Balapur village in Akola district in the State of Maharashtra.
Raju Kute the accused, was obviously a disturbed father who got so very upset
while reviewing his daughter’s home-work that he couldn’t control his anger
when she failed to recite numbers and therefore thrashed her and probably got
so livid due to her inability to rise to his expectations, that he forced an
onion down her throat choking her to death.
Not only
that, in his effort of hiding his crime resulting out of his displeasure
towards his daughter’s stumbling words, he discreetly buried her body which was
later reported to the police by the heart-broken mother of the child who had
witnessed this monstrous act.
This
happening however, speaks volumes about the ignorance and viciousness of a man
who for whatever reasons, lid his stress, allowing pressure to build up till it
burst open on an innocent child of his own.
I do not
know how educated Raju Kute is, but if he is an uneducated man then his action
has certainly thrown light on the importance of the gathering of knowledge and
working on it to acquire wisdom. If however, he is educated enough to toe the
demands of the system of learning and expect perfect recitation of numerals
from a six year old, then his action throws light on the lack of peaceful and
happy education.
Our system
of learning is a system gone crazy. It has locked its students in prisons of
greed who in desperation are constantly attempting to scale walls of marks; and
are being groomed in narcissism.
A renovation
with an understanding of words of an enlightened man would do this system good.
“Take someone who doesn’t keep score,
who’s not looking to be richer, or afraid of losing, who has not the slightest
interest even in his own personality: he’s free.”- Rumi
Our
educationists need to be woken up from their delusive slumberous ideas on learning
because real learning can only happen when one turns away from competition.
If only Kute
had read Neela Satyanarayan’s novel
‘One Full, One Half’, then he would
not have considered his child incomplete without numbers. In her novel, Satyanarayan
explains her juggling with a demanding career and parental affection to bring
up a child with Down’s syndrome. As we read her work, we understand that one
can conquer every inability or disability with love. Cheers to this parent and
many more like her who value their children not because they are bright or
excellent in their academics but because they love them for who they are.
Satyanarayan goes on to explain her understanding of the handicap that life
inflicted on her child and made her ‘look inwards’. She refuses to grieve that
her child will not rise to the normal expectations of the society but instead
decides that, “He and I, shall live with it and still be happy.’ She expands
her thoughts and wonders if every normal person is ‘really full’, ‘complete in
all respects’ and asks, ‘Why do then normal people feel that they are ‘Full’
and others like Chaitanya (her son) are half or incomplete?’.
If Kute had
ever read about great men like Albert Einstein, Thomas Edison, Alexander Graham
Bell and many others who had learning disabilities and yet were FULL in
themselves, he would not have lifted an onion.
If Kute had
paid attention to his spirit man then he would have lived his life and his
child’s difficulty with grace. As Satyanarayan says, ‘It is love which
nourishes us. All other things are unimportant.’ But Kute must have been so
lost himself, that in the race of numbers he had no time to look into the heart
of his little girl.
At the end,
it’s not just a sad story of an education system of figures racing to achieve a
goal without dignity of tranquility and instead going perverse in the madness of gathering
futile numbers; it is the end of a system of learning which has failed to teach
man to be peaceful with his lot.
The modern
man is so desirous to fill himself with fake expectations of the world that
he does not realize how empty he is on the inside.
The ideal of
this system to achieve and find placements in life is obnoxiously unpleasant
and annoyingly damaging to one and all who like mindless herd simply follow it
without questioning its repercussions.
The
philosophy of any system of education which for the joy of learning must be
based on love, harmony and care, will instead sell itself to greed of numbers, then there will
continue to be acts like the murder of the little six year old Bharti.
I’m sure
that Bharti’s world was ‘complete in itself, pure and innocent’ in contrast to
her father’s world of ‘deceit, jealousies and ill feelings’.
Today every
soul which has held on to a hope, that education will make a difference, will
grieve and lament at the loss of Bharti, but like Satyanarayan it will not give
up that hope. It will continue like her, for a ‘One full world – A world full
of love, caring and sharing’.
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ReplyDeleteThe problem is not necessarily and merely with the marksheet concept but more so with the way parents react. Their reaction needs to be amended to reaction with maturity and with positively guiding the child and not negatively affronting the child. The cited case reflects Medical and criminal problem of parent.
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